Behavior Is Contagious—So What Are You Catching?

Behavior Is Contagious—So What Are You Catching? I’ve been listening to Malcolm Gladwell’s Revenge of the Tipping Point, and it struck a nerve. Not because it’s about dramatic social shifts or political pivots, but because it confirmed something I’ve seen quietly changing men’s lives for years: Behavior doesn’t just change because someone “tries harder.” Behavior […]
Where Are All the Elders? The Missing Piece Men Are Searching For

Where Are All the Elders? The Missing Piece Men Are Searching For Something happened in one of our groups recently that’s been sitting with me. A man raised his hand and asked if we could spend the evening talking about elderhood. Not because he was old, he wasn’t, because he felt the absence of it. […]
Becoming Your Own Agent: The Hidden Cost of Outsourcing Your Life to AI

Becoming Your Own Agent: The Hidden Cost of Outsourcing Your Life to AI AI agents vs. being your own agent — and why it matters now more than ever There’s never been a more powerful time to outsource your life. AI agents (software systems that act on your behalf) can now write your emails, summarize […]
Reclaiming the Real: How Men Can Return to Creativity, Community, and Struggle

Reclaiming the Real: How Men Can Return to Creativity, Community, and Struggle A continuation of last week’s: PART 1: THE GREAT SHIFT – FROM MAKERS TO WATCHERS When men stopped making, something vital went missing. Not just from the culture. From our nervous systems. Because being a man isn’t about being in charge or having […]